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Our United Villages was inspired when a small group of neighbors gathered
around their kitchen tables to talk about problems that plagued their
neighborhood. They asked questions such as: "Why, with all of
society's immense resources, do social problems like isolation, violence,
poverty, crime, and fear persist in our neighborhood?" They decided
to work together and look within, drawing on their own experiences,
creativity, expertise, and enthusiasm, to address these problems.
As they reached out to other neighbors, they learned that many
people didn´t know each other and felt disconnected in their own neighborhood.
As
neighbors talked more, they discovered many similar hopes and dreams for their neighborhood.
Together, they explored ideas for how to overcome these feelings of isolation and the lack of
communication. Before long, neighbors were working together—with common goals and visions—
to benefit the entire community.
Individuals of different ages and social, economic, racial, and
ethnic backgrounds were able to work side–by–side in the healthy development of their
community.
Through this experience, Our United Villages learned that a great deal of the
discontent that is at the roots of society´s social problems
is caused by a lack of deeper
connections between people who share communities.
Our United Villages was founded in 1997
because these neighbors proved that the capacity to make a positive difference and solve problems
in our communities exists within us and each other.
It begins with people connecting with one
another and working together to achieve commonly held hopes and dreams for the future of their
neighborhood.
David's Story
It all started when a group of neighbors
started talking on the sidewalk.
In 1996, a drive-by shooting
took place in a Portland neighborhood. No one called the cops,
and a
shocked neighborhood came together to ask, "How is it possible that
one of us gets shot
at while the rest do nothing? How did we get to this place as a community, and what do we do now?"
These neighbors
were different races, ages, and had different income levels and backgrounds.
What they had most in common was they all called the same neighborhood
home and they all wanted
to make the neighborhood a better place.
Neighbors began meeting informally
to share meals, ideas, and to get to know one another better.
They talked
about poverty, violence, and isolation. They asked themselves, "With
all the resources
that are available, why do these social problems continue
despite society's best efforts to solve them?"
When the discussion
turned to how to cut down on crime in their neighborhood, David bubbled
to the top
of the list. Only 13 years old, David (not his real name)
and his buddies were responsible for a lot of
the vandalism and theft
in the neighborhood. One neighbor asked, "Does anyone know David?"
Another
responded, "Yeah, I've told him to stay away from my house."
The neighbor asked again, "But does anyone
know David? Does
anyone know what is important to him?" In an effort to understand
David, this
neighbor decided to reach out to him and ask, "If you
could have anything in the world, what would you want?"
David replied,
"A million dollars, a motorcycle, and braces."
At their next gathering,
the neighbor shared David's response with the group. The collective
wheels started to turn, and though
David was out of luck on the million
bucks and too young for the motorcycle, the neighbors began to
brainstorm
about how they could get David a straighter set of teeth. Neighbors
met David's mother and
learned more about her family. David's mother
recognized the need, but couldn't afford the braces. She
gave her
approval for the neighbors to look into it.
Later, one of the neighbors
was getting
his haircut and shared the story of David. The stylist was
so moved, she not only cut his hair for free,
she pulled $50 out of
her purse to give towards David's teeth. The hairdresser also knew
of an orthodontist
who might be able to help. In support of this community
effort, the orthodontist offered his services for
half the normal cost
and began working on David's braces immediately. At the next gathering,
neighbors
were even more inspired to work towards getting David braces.
It took the neighbors six months to raise
all the money. Some people
matched the $50 from the stylist and others gave a dollar or two.
After David's teeth were
straightened, one of the neighbors was working in her garage when David
and a few friends passed by. David turned back and came up to the neighbor
to say, "If I didn't know you,
I would steal those bikes." This
neighbor brought the story back to the next gathering. One wise woman
said, "You know, we haven't changed David, but we have changed our
relationship with him." He's not going
to steal from them anymore,
and he won't allow his friends to do so either. The neighbors had
changed too;
instead of complaining about the kid down the street that
causes problems, they saw David as an individual
and a neighbor they
were getting to know. They realized that when you change your
way of doing things,
you can get a different outcome.
The neighbors continued to
work together on dreams for
their neighborhood.
They started to realize that
collectively they had a wealth of experience, knowledge,
and ability.
With their combined abilities and shared interests, they could accomplish
just about anything.
A house-bound elder is given a whistle so her neighbors
can come to her aid. A community basketball hoop goes up.
A scholarship
fund for neighborhood children is proposed. And so began Our United
Villages. Our United Villages
was founded in 1997 because these neighbors
were living proof that there are solutions right under our noses, and
all we have to do to discover them is to get to know each other. We
can accomplish great things together.
Our United Villages is a
non-profit organization founded on the belief that every person has
something positive to contribute and that communities are healthier
and happier when each person is valued.
These neighbors realized that
everyday people throughout neighborhoods have an abundance of amazing
ideas,
but no venue dedicated to getting to know neighbors and sharing
ideas. The founders of Our United Villages
set out to establish an organization
to foster this spirit throughout communities. Our United Villages encourages
neighbors to meet and create bonds that inevitably strengthen the social
fabric of the entire community.
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